It seemed to him that all his life he had followed the ideals that other people, by their words or their writings, had instilled into him, and never the desires of his own heart. Always his course had been swayed by what he thought he should do and never by what he wanted with his whole soul to do.
He thought of his desire to make a design, intricate and beautiful, out of the myriad, meaningless facts of life: had he not seen also that the simplest pattern, that in which a man was born, worked, married, had children, and died, was likewise the most perfect? It might be that to surrender to happiness was to accept defeat, but it was a defeat better than many victories.
像是教人整理，鼓励早起的剧集挺好看，当然不包括哪些鸡汤啥啥的 我喜欢实用的
Kristina Dufková在《Ze zivota matek》里说：“生活总是让我们遍体鳞伤，但到后来，那些受伤的地方一定会变成我们最强壮的地方。”
编剧更得慢可以理解，因为好看哇😊，但男女主的感情至少也要有点进展吧。男女主智商高，情商低，该死的，死不了，是留着过夜的？也是醉醉的了。一直盼着美人师父闪亮登场，奈何剧情拖沓，好难等啊！整本剧就喜欢美人师父一个，看有生之年能不能看到美人师父了。知道编剧更得慢，但是只要浓缩剧情不就可以不用那么麻烦了吗，不能因为你想赚钱就用废话来骗我的钱了？我的钱是我父母辛辛苦苦赚来的，我从第一话追到现在为止，花了那么多钱，我现在就觉得我的脑子是被驴踢过的，我呢，也是有底线的。编剧在这么拖沓下去，这书弃了，也没那么可惜了，唉，干脆就追到这里吧，过几年之后直接看结局 ，至于中间，不用想也能猜到是一些废话(눈_눈)
用最平静的语言讲最惨痛的故事，文字背后是克制的无可奈何。对于时间和无关看客来说，任何事故都只是故事。生活不允许每个人记得太多过往，过往太沉重了。生活还要继续向前，任何人都别无他法。
It seemed to him that all his life he had followed the ideals that other people, by their words or their writings, had instilled into him, and never the desires of his own heart. Always his course had been swayed by what he thought he should do and never by what he wanted with his whole soul to do. He thought of his desire to make a design, intricate and beautiful, out of the myriad, meaningless facts of life: had he not seen also that the simplest pattern, that in which a man was born, worked, married, had children, and died, was likewise the most perfect? It might be that to surrender to happiness was to accept defeat, but it was a defeat better than many victories.
接受人是普通人的事实，包括父母只是普通的父母，伴侣只是普通的伴侣，孩子只是普通的孩子，我也只是普通的我，这样的接受让人放下不必要的执念，好好生活。
值得一看，全球化的不断推进使你不止是和同一地区的人交互竞争，而是和远比从前更多的人处于同一竞技台，全球化给个人带来了机遇与挑战，正如以往，不论何时都需要把握机遇迎接挑战，感谢此剧给了一个更开阔的视角。